I messed around with this for quite some time but just couldn't come up with a easy way to integrate this into my build process.
Calling the ILMerge utility with the proper paremeters, renaming the assembly so it had the same name as my app did, signing the new assembly was just not something that was easy to do. I am using Visual Basic 2005 Express.
Turns out it was MUCH easier to just change my install to also add the Interop.MediaPlayer.dll to the GAC. It is already strong name signed as part of the IDE build process.
Thanks for the help though.
Jeff